Alicia Keys Mashonda Feud Hits Twitter

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Alicia Keys Mashonda Feud Hits Twitter

Alicia Keys Mashonda Feud Hits Twitter – Last night Mashonda took to Twitter to confront her soon to be ex-husband Swizz Beats girfriend,Alicia Keys.Apparently Swizz Beats and Mashonda are still married and are still living together.Mashonda reveals that Keys is the one who ruined her relationship.Alicia Keys said on Twitter:

“I don’t pretend 2 no wht luv is 4 every1, I can tell u wht it is for me;

To which Mashonda replied:

After having a great evening with my son and enjoying some fun twit chat, I decided to sign off and get some work done. However, a few hours later I was advised that I should check @aliciakeys twit page. I’ve never reached out to her on twitter before. I feel our issues are a lot more serious than a website conversation. Not to mention that I’ve reached out to her many times in the beginning of this whole thing, as any wife would do. Unfortunately, I never succeeded in getting a response. The 1st time I meet AK, my husband introduced us to each other at an event. ( I have no choice but to call him my husband, until he is not anymore) In the messages that I sent to her (AK), I made it very clear that on the contrary of what she might be hearing, I am still married to my husband, living with him and just had a child. Its been two years and I still have not received a response. What I do receive, is constant displays of selfishness and disconcern to me and my son.

I was a fan of AK’s last album, we were both signed to J Records and I always checked up on her projects. I sang her songs and admired her for creating Superwoman and Karma, I would never deny her, her talent. I believed in her until I found out she was possibly sleeping with my husband. The affair was denied by both, until it was finally admitted months later.

Already I can hear some of you saying ” why are u blaming her, You cant make someone leave their wife, You cant break something thats broken”. Well, my marriage was not broken, as far as I knew we were celebrating our sons birth and getting ready to celebrate our 5 year wedding anniversary . Call it blind love, whatever. I call it being a devoted wife.. As far as me blaming her and not blaming him, thats false. Me and my husband have worked out our differences. We are in a good place as people and as parents. I accept his choices and I am comfortable enough with myself to move on. I am so very blessed in many ways.

My concern with AK is no longer the fact that she assisted in destroying a family but that she has the audacity to make these selfish comments about love and wanting to be with someone, even after knowing their situation. How is this the same Superwoman that I sang out loud with in my truck? I ask myself sometimes.

If you are reading this Alicia, let me start by saying, you know what you did. You know the role you played and you know how you contributed to the ending of my marriage. You know that I asked you to step back and let me handle my family issues. Issues that you helped to create.
Im not saying everything was perfect all the time but no relationship is perfect. We made a vow to God and I believe you should have respected that, as a woman. I know you owe me or my son nothing but I just wish you would’ve handled things more carefully. I’m not judging you, I put you and the whole situation in the hands of God, the Higher Power. Just know that as a woman, I expected so much more from you. I never had intentions on reaching out to you this way but after reading your twits tonight, and the constant disregard, you left me no choice. I feel that after 1 and a half years of you hiding this affair and acting like it doesnt exist, that now is the time to confront it, since you talk so openly about it now

This is not a publicity stunt, I dont have a record coming out. I just need to close this chapter in my life and that means confronting our issues. There is a small child involved. His dad loves him to death and he wants to spend more time with him but hes afraid because he knows we don’t have a relationship. This is my main concern. My son NEEDS his dad and I NEED to be comfortable with you. For him!

I know many will see my point and many will not be able to look into what’s real because they only want to see Alicia Keys the celebrity, not the human. This is not for the “people”, this is for you. Like I said I was left no choice but to reach out to you this way. By now, Im sure you want to find a balance in this as well.

I read your tweets tonight and I felt they were very insensitive. You have no idea how much pain I was caused because of this affair. Its baffling to me that you don’t understand what I might have gone through with this situation. I dont consider myself a victim anymore, Ive learned alot from this! I just ask you to try and be a bit more realistic and delicate to the situation, at least until my divorce is final. I felt me attending the party would have been a starting point for us, since you shook my hand after I offered it, but I suppose I was wrong.

If its so, that you and my husband are meant to be together, then God bless you both and I hope you never have to deal with what I did. I would not wish it on my worst enemy. If you two being together forever is the case, its more of a reason for us to get along, because I’m not going anywhere. Theres a child to be raised.

To answer your tweet, choose smart over spark. Sparks burn everyone, be smart! Its simple actually, just think of the shoe being on the other foot.

Stay blessed and lets work this thing out with respect and dignity.

Wow,Mashonda had a lot to say.

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    1. anita says:

      Well I just don’t understand why anyone would want any of this to be public, unless they were just out of their mind. It takes a very vindictive and mean person to try to deliberately destroy another person’s career and be so selfish to not even think of the effect of their actions on their own child. Why would anyone who was really genuinely upset wait years before becoming this angry to confront the so called mistress on twitter. Wouldn’t you think she would have been more angry at the time she found out? What is with waiting so long and then realizing, oh yes I’m angry so I’ll let everyone know that now. I’ve got a feeling there is much, much more to this story. I think some people choose not to tell thier side because they are using their heads and thinking of the kids first. Got to think of the kids, remember? You don’t bash your child’s mother, but I’ve got a funny feeling there is a lot that could be said. I can see being angry at another woman, even though evidently AK was not the first, but I can also see being totally irate with him. He chose to leave the marriage. You don’t beg or try to talk to the other woman, especially after this has been going on for over a year. That is so pathetic. What did you want her to tell you M? OK I’ll back off, I’ll let you have him, go on back to her, you don’t seem to understand it wasn’t AK’s decision. He’s a grown man. There was no reason for you to be so angry at anything Ak said on Twitter since you two were not even together then. You shouldn’t have even been concerned with what she was saying. It’s obvious you were just jealous and wanted to cause her some problems never stopping to think of anything else. Your so called anger at her after such a long time was just ridiculous. He left the marriage. She didn’t steal him. Your wanting to talk to her and aggravating her, like you said you tried many times, just made you look desperate and whiney. I can see you not liking her, if it all went down like we’ve heard, but to take it that far was just wrong. I hope you all can just get along for the kids sake, but I must say I can see AK never really trusting YOU. You seem to like to get things started, (tabloid talk, interviews, and now this new reality show). If your smart, for everyone’s sake, certain topics would definitely be off limit. Remember the kids. This could get a lot more disgusting.

    2. anonymous says:

      wow speechless

    3. Danielle says:

      I guess what I got out of reading this was remembering that we’re not perfect, ANY of us… not even the seemingly angelic Alicia Keys? What a surprise! How reassuring for me, now I can forgive myself for basenesses I’ve committed during my life on earth as a human being, too. But poor Alicia… any woman with any experience knows- a guy like that doesn’t change… and Karma is the law of the Universe! Love your music, Alicia. May God help you and baby now

    4. Kim says:

      “I don’t pretend 2 no wht luv is 4 every1, I can tell u wht it is for me;

      One thing love isn’t is selfish. No one knows what love is for another person. Any married person who acts on something without considering their partner is selfish. And entering into a relationship with someone else, huh, this new relationship is not only built on selfishness but a lie because the marriage was not dissolved before the relationship began. Now, she stepped into the wife’s role and the vows won’t protect her because she partook in breaking someone else’s. He didn’t honor and she didn’t respect the vows he had with his previous wife. Vows are a covenant with God and He honors His covenant. He will not disregard the first covenant for the new one. His word says you reap what we sow and that’s true for everybody cause He is no respecter of persons. I know this is wrong by reading God’s word but I won’t judge. However, He is the judge, this goes against His standards and it will be judged….and the world will be a witness.

    5. ldl says:

      Tired of your boo hooing Mashonda. You’re getting everything you want by dragging Alicia’s name through the dirt. If you didn’t want any publicity you wouldn’t be doing so many interviews. If you didn’t want sympathy you wouldn’t be telling your boo hoo stories. If you really cared about your son you would leave Alicia and Swizz alone. There are two sides two every story. Yours gets crazier all the time. Airing you dirty laundry this way, is ridiculous. No one even knew you until now. Looks like you’re draining for all it’s worth. You were raped? You need therapy. You had a miscarriage and blamed it on Swizz and stress from another affair? Then you still stay with him. I don’t see anything strong about that. Alicia may have made a mistake by getting pregnant before marriage but no one is perfect and we all make mistakes, hers is just magnified because of who she is. Please. The letter alone you wrote her shows exactly what kind of person you are. I wouldn’t want to talk to you either. You don’t beg the other woman, you take care of your man or talk to him. Respect. LOL Alicia

    6. Sapphire girl says:

      Remember believe none of what you hear and half of what you see. All is not what it appears to be.

    7. JaY V says:

      This is all messed up what Alicia Keys did she was sleeping with a married man point blank. F*** the other Blazzy Blazzy Blazzy Alicia took Mashondas Man away she knew what she was doing . Thats what she was aiming to begin with. She did not respect. Yea she sings great yes she famous but nothing justifies what she has done. N Swizz Beatz , Its not the mans fault because and reality and people ya should understand this ” El Hombre llega asta donde la mujer quiere ” meaning the ” Man will do untill the womans lets him in her pants”. The woman should know what the h*** shes doing. So watever I had read all this comments and it seems like some of them are just S*****. People Shes wrong for what she did I mean come on the man was married @ the time.***HELLO***. But u know what… Once a man is a cheater hes alwayz going to cheat the same thing is going to happen with this woman AK . What makes this woman think that If Swizz Beatz did it to Mashonda hes not going to do it to her. Come On dont be D**** people. THINK AND STOP LEAVING THIS COMMENTS THAT ITS OKAY ..OKAY MY A**. U HEAR. Anyone knows this but watever it is wat it is wish them the best . Thought ill drop a comment after all I have read. Bye :)

    8. jon jon says:

      MYOB!!!!!!!

    9. Kels says:

      Too much over-sharing. All of this twittering and facebook-ing… Too Much Information. There’s no such thing as discretion anymore. These matters are best left between the parties involved – only. I’ve had enough of all of it.
      Unfortunately, these things happen everyday – someone leaves someone for someone else. As dirty as the details are, it’s just not our business…celebrity or not. Please, to the three parties involved: stop sharing so much. Damn, Swizz luvs AK, MaShonda’s mad at Swizz and AK…it’s all so aweful. But it’s being portrayed like 10th grade drama scene b/c of all of this oversharing and other people’s input. Geez, just stop it.

    10. nicky says:

      I will never buy any Alicia Keys again. I would include Swiss, but I can’t guarantee that cuz he’s on too much stuff!!! But don’t let him come out with another song of his own, cuz it ain’t gettin’ got BY ME!!! Mashonda is right, that was f*d up to her and his kids. People are so selfish now a days. They only see what they want. “God” wouldn’t give you another womans husband, he is far too decent for that.

    11. da_homie says:

      MIND UR OWN DANG ON BUISNESS DIS IZ BETWEEN MASHONDA, ALICIA, AND SWIZZ THERE IS 2 SIDES 2 EVRY STORY N WE DON’T KNO WUT REALLY HAPPENED SO DONT ASSUME U KNO WUT DA PICTURE IS B4 U GET ALL DA PIECES 2 DA PUZZLE.

    12. liz says:

      mhmm, its not alicias faultt i meaan a she prob shouldnt have went there butt she did. BUT a man will be a mann… and he shouldnt have let another women come in between his marraige. he shouldnt hve done it point blank. now that its done its done. she diserves better anyways.

    13. tiffany says:

      You put yourself out there in this world as if you where some star studded angel, who wants to save the world and starving children, when in all reality, you just another Hood-Rat, home-wreaking chick, Who wasn’t woman enough, and apparently not confident enough to go find YOUR own man. (Oh I know what you did, (You not slick) It was that rumor about you being gay, huh)? That didn’t mean fix it with a married man sweetheart. You young girls of today, so simple minded. That wasn’t your place to change the laws of the bible to fit you and his selfish needs. Regardless of what anyone says about “it takes two to tango”, you still opened your legs for a spoken for man. Needless to say, someone’s HUSBAND. You ruined a home, destroyed a child’s comfort of having a mother and father in the same home together, something AMERICAs YOUNG BLACK FAMILIES LACK, because of you was in love with another woman’s HUSBAND. How could you do that? How can you can look that little boy in his face and say you love him or his father after taking away the one thing he was sure about? And believe me, you gonna have to say it eventually if you call yourself being in that man’s life forever. What you going to say to that child when he ask your stupid azz, Why you with his father and not his mother? How did you and my daddy get together? Did you or Swiss take in to consideration the fact that this mess you made can affect this boy in more than one way? He could grow up hating you because you ruined his father and mother’s relationship. Swiss doesn’t have to think about it because he doesn’t have to be with either one of you. By you being a woman you should have known better, with all the heartbreak songs you sing. Let’s quote, “Have you ever tried sleeping with a broken heart, well you can try sleeping in my bed. Lonely, I thought you told me you’ll never leave me. Isn’t that where you and he left that woman? What did she ever do to you? Besides be a fan she admits (Gracefully). Let me ask you this, you would have thought that woman was dead wrong if she would have handled that any different than what she did? People get hurt like that honey, or don’t you care? Oh I forgot you Alicia Keys, You above that, huh? Now that’s the confidence you should have put into finding your own man. You good though, Cause you got what you wanted right? Rich, Poor, Dead or alive, all you broads are the same. NO MORALS, NO VALUES. Your mother must have never taught you to never touch something that didn’t belong to you. That’s called STEALING. Stealing is the same as lying. And we all know a liar is a thief. Their marriage may have been over or Mashonda may not have been doing her job as his wife, for him to obviously stray, But you did the unjustifiable when you destroyed that child’s security. It might have been his marriage but it was your nastiness that kept it going. To MEN & WOMEN and out there, always keep this in mind, you play a part in wither your marriage succeeds or fail. Take care of your MEN and your WOMEN and you won’t always have this problem. Communication, Support, Inspiration, and Openness to try new things, Motivation, Values and Morals are what we all look for. Relationships are like jobs, to create success you have to implement new techniques. The one’s that work keep, One’s that don’t try something else. He or she changes, Change with him/her (For the GOOD). Chill with the nagging. It only drives the other away and you insane. It doesn’t help you to continually say the same things. If you find yourself repeating yourself, fix it yourself and move on. But if you don’t want to move on FIX IT, (You gonna do it anyway). Men accommodate your women, pay attention to your women and RESPECT US ALWAYS. We will never be the type of people who wants to be abused or disrespected in anyway shape, fashion, or form. Understand WE want to be treated with RESPECT and DIGNITY. (Meaning us as men and women need to treat ourselves with that same RESPECT AND DIGNITY first). I love a man with confidence but don’t be too confident to where it makes you an ugly person. And First and foremost, BE A MAN and A WOMAN AT ALL TIMES, Anything less is uncivilized.

      • ldl says:

        It is amazing to me how people can be so mean and judgemental when they don’t even know the facts. They just choose to believe whatever or whoever. It makes me feel bad just reading some of the remarks people are saying about Alicia. It is very sad. God is forgiving. Seems lots of people aren’t and they make it there business to judge when they have no right. I hope these remarks don’t bother Alicia the way they have me. I don’t know how she takes it going through every day with people putting her down and judging her. It makes me sick. Alicia is a talented person and seems to be very caring. Whatever happened or happens, I wish Alicia the best. As far as you worrying about the childs future I would be more concerned about what people are putting in his head thats possibly not even true. I think Alicia would be a great mother and could answer any questions he has. Like us he will choose to believe what or whoever he wants. God bless you and your family Alicia. Never stop the music.

    14. bangie says:

      Will u have 2 look at it from both angles cause he playing a part. And the wife can’t be mad because its over but i do know where she’s coming from because i have a man and i can’t stand for another chick to get in my business. But u have to respect the next woman at the end of the day because she didn’t leave his wife he did.So it like move on but it will hurt. and a man will do what and who he want so if it wasn’t Alicia it could have been someone else and u never know that man told Alicia so.

    15. Mad Married Woman!! says:

      I see Alicia Keys in a whole new light because Mashonda is right. That’s her husband and Alicia should have backed off until he handled his business as a man, if he didn’t want to honor his commitments that he stood before GOD and all and promised this woman. I am a married woman and I know what it feels like to feel that you are doing what is need for the family and your husband has different ideas on what is right and wrong. I do understand that the heart wants what it wants but for one why does it have to be someone else’s husband!! As a woman you make the choice to open your legs to a married man. So now it’s not your heart it’s your “TWAT”, and if you didn’t understand that is the thing between a woman’s legs. GOD does send us people to love but out of respect to GOD and your fellow woman, Alicia should have told this man I am digging you, but you need to handle yours with that woman that just a few years before claimed to love and married, that he has issues and then if that couldn’t be worked out with her and him and only after the divorce then you get with this man or woman for that fact. But never before, because if you love that person the love will be there even stronger because you did what was pleasing to GOD, and not yourself. Now you can say I honestly had no influence over his decision to leave his wife but come on do you think for a minute that his decision had NOTHING TO DO WITH YOU!! I know you have to be smarter than that!! If it don’t start off right it will end with heart break in the same manner cause if he did it to her why won’t he do it to you. Keep your legs closed Alicia to married men and GOD will show you true love in the end!!

    16. J.R. LeMar says:

      Drama Queen.